Add code anchors for reduced DOF dropping block example (phys-sim-book#9

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* [add] add a draw abd embedding mesh option for the reduced dof sim script

* added separator and method checks

* [add] add anchors for the reduced dof example

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Co-authored-by: Minchen Li <minchernl@gmail.com>

dPdF B_left_coef col major