support array properties where order does _not_ matter

[uladkasach]

right now we only support array properties where order does matter

we could easily support case where order does not matter by just sorting the inputs each time deterministically (that way regardless of what order the input is, it will result in "no change" in the database)

[uladkasach]

hmmm..... actually, the user can just sort the inputs themselves before calling the upsert fn. thats simpler -> less options to keep track of?

or would it be better to make the user explicitly think about that?