[Bug] TotalPendingBytes size overflow Exception

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Apache Dubbo Component

Java SDK (apache/dubbo)

Dubbo Version

dubbo 3.2.18 openjdk21

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‌Issue Description:‌
When building a consumer-provider application using JDK 21 deployed on an intranet server:

1. The ‌consumer-side‌ runs on an ‌8-core CPU and 8GB RAM‌ machine with JVM -Xmx parameter set to ‌4GB‌.
2. RPC communication uses the ‌Triple protocol‌ with a ‌message size of ~900KB‌ (approximately 1MB).
3. Under ‌100 concurrent RPC calls‌ (issue reproduces at just 15 concurrency), all RPC requests ‌fail immediately‌ with the error: TotalPendingBytes size overflow for stream

After testing, in JDK 21, whether business threads use virtual threads or platform threads to initiate Dubbo RPC requests, the error conclusion remains unchanged – both cases result in the same error.

What you expected to happen

‌"I want to resolve this error because under the exact same configuration (JDK 8 + Dubbo 3.0.12 + Triple protocol), my tests run without errors. However, the error occurs with Dubbo 3.2.18 and JDK 21."

what i want to know is why it happend in jdk21 + dubbo 3.2.18 , but not happend in JDK 8 + Dubbo 3.0.12 ;
i have read some issue ralated this , but i didnt find a offical method** to resolve it and **didnt find a really reason for it ...

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